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Jillian Aurora is a certified professional mediator who has practiced family law mediation for seven years. She is passionate about guiding individuals through high-conflict rough patches in romantic relationships, family relationships, and work relationships. Through Goddess LLC, she offers consultation as a conflict strategist, deconstruction guide, and cleric.
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If you are currently:
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Going through a divorce
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Co-parenting with a difficult partner
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Trying to resolve high-conflict disagreements within a marriage, partnership, or family relationship
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Leaving a high-demand relationship, group, or belief system
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Trying to navigate post-break-up relationships after leaving a high-demand relationship or group
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Jillian offers practical, solution-focused strategy sessions, where she offers conflict resolution skills and techniques to protect your personal peace while navigating the landmines.
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​If you are looking to memorialize a life event through ceremony for:
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Coming of age
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Marriage
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Divorce
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Achievement
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Death or grief
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Jillian facilitates ceremonies, complete with thought-provoking journaling preparation, ceremony outlines, and personalized rituals. You can facilitate the ceremony yourself with pre-created ceremony guides here, or you can book a session with Jillian to plan your personalized event with her.
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Testimonials
Heather P.
I thought I was just going to get a few tips to smooth the waters of a tough time in my marriage, but I got so much more! Jillian helped me address my underlying people pleasing that's been impacting my relationships for years. I've gotten so much better at clearly speaking my truth without sugarcoating or shrinking. I also realized I wasn't articulating my needs well because I didn't understand them myself. Jillian's ability to pinpoint areas of confusion and offer much needed insight in a gentle way was brilliant. In short, this work was life changing for me.
Tami G.
I cannot say enough about my work with Jillian. I have so much more clarity about what arguments I decide to get involved in or not. I realized I was constantly feeling helpless about arguments that ended in stalemates and hurt feelings, and I was ignoring the hard conversations that really needed to happen. I ended up facing a lot of difficult truths about my relationships. Although Jillian is really gentle, she pointed out painful facts I needed to hear. I got honest about the reasons why I was avoiding talking about certain issues with my son. It was so hard to put my feelings into words and our conversations aren't done, but I've started it. The best part is I now feel that I will be ok no matter how he responds.
Brian H.
I was having the hardest time co-parenting with my ex-wife. I was feeling really helpless about my relationship with my daughter because I couldn't get ahead of the bad mouthing that was always happening at her mom's house. In addition to helping me communicate with my ex more clearly and with defined boundaries, Jillian connected me to resources that have helped me strengthen my relationship with my daughter. I'm no longer feeling powerless about building a relationship with my daughter, and even though my relationship with my ex may always be rocky, I have a consistent communication strategy that works.
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Britney Z.
After leaving a fundamentalist religious cult, Jillian's help was instrumental in identifying areas of belief that had caused harm and then empowering me to choose for myself what beliefs I wanted to keep, discard, or redefine. Once I left, I had a lot of family conflict to navigate, and it was overwhelming. In my work with Jillian, I developed healthier ways to communicate my feelings, needs, and boundaries. Although there is a long road forward and probably more conflict ahead, I feel hopeful and so much more confident in myself.
Mark W.
I went through a period of time when I was fighting a lot with my girlfriend, and I was starting to become afraid the relationship might end. I knew that simply choosing to agree all the time wasn't going to fix things, but the fighting wasn't working either. Jillian helped me see areas in my relationship where boundaries were being violated on both sides and encouraged me to clean up my side of the street while also clearly communicating my own boundaries. Jillian also encouraged me to consciously evaluate the values I wanted to have in my relationship and pointed out some old beliefs that were causing tension. I'm in a place with my girlfriend now where we are really talking productively and developing solutions. I'm feeling so much more confident that we will work things out.
Trinity M.
I spent years of my life in an abusive marriage and after leaving, dating scared the crap out of me. I was terrified of missing red flags again after I had finally rebuilt a peaceful life. Jillian helped me clarify my own values and boundaries, so I had a better picture of what I wanted in a partner. She also helped me examine areas where I was talking myself out of my intuition and excusing concerning behavior. I'm now much more assertive and straightforward about my boundaries with potential partners and I feel confident in my ability to ask important questions to assess the emotional and physical safety of a person. These skills are invaluable and I can't believe I ever lived without them!