Let's talk boundaries....

Updated: Jan 8


One of the most profound concepts I have ever learned is how to create and hold my own boundaries. Boundaries are foundational for self-worth, health, and love. I used to think I was at the mercy of others to hold my boundaries. I thought if other people didn’t respect my boundaries, boundaries were useless. I just didn’t understand boundaries. Today, I am acutely aware of my boundaries - what I want. What I don’t want. What I am available for. What I am unavailable for. What is and isn’t ok with me. None of these things need to be spoken. They just ARE. BECAUSE I RESPECT THEM. Without compromise. I respect my space through what I am UNAVAILABLE for. I am unavailable for obligation and guilt. I am unavailable for manipulation and fear. I am unavailable for toleration. I am unavailable for pity and disempowerment. I am unavailable for dishonoring relationships. I am unavailable for friendships I don’t feel 100% inspired to create/keep. I am unavailable for experiences my heart doesn’t scream “HELL YES” to do. I am unavailable for jobs that pay me less than I am worth. I am unavailable for unequal energy exchanges. I am unavailable for people or jobs or experiences that don’t light me up and support my purpose on this planet. Once my space is honored and protected by the boundaries I hold, I am able to fully stand in my power to CREATE the life I am meant to live. I get to own the responsibility to get CLEAR about what I WANT (inspiration). I HONOR my life purpose through being clear about what I AM available for.