Settling is Always Based in Fear

“You can’t always get what you want.”

“You have to be realistic.”

“You just have to take what you can get.”

“Better to play it safe.”

“You should be real - these are your only options.”

“If you don’t settle, you’ll get something you really don’t want.”

Settling is the NORM.

LOADS of people will try talking you out of following your heart. They will try to convince you SETTLING is the ONLY option. They will try to convince you it is the RIGHT way.

But behind SETTLING is always FEAR.

We are AFRAID we will fail.

We are AFRAID we will fall short.

We are AFRAID things won’t work out.

We are AFRAID of not being in CONTROL.

We are AFRAID of DISCOMFORT.

We are AFRAID of PAIN.

We are AFRAID of UNCERTAINTY.

We are SURROUNDED by people governed by FEAR.

What is the COST?

We trade our passion for security.

We trade our freedom for a paycheck.

We trade our calling for benefits.

We trade our safety for luxury.

We trade our desires for "good enough".

We trade our truth for accommodation.

We trade our values for compromise.

We trade our authenticity for reputation.

Is it worth it? Is it ACTUALLY safer to live this way?

FUCK NO.

This is the fast track to dying without ever living. To experience life without ever living FOR anything. It is a life of compromise, selling out, and caution. It is a life of deep soul exhaustion, never quite feeling fulfillment or meaning.

The cost for the illusion of safety is HIGH.

It is SETTLING.

Settle energy is fear energy. And it has no place in the realm of a Goddess.

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