Settling is Always Based in Fear

Updated: Dec 14, 2021

“You can’t always get what you want.”

“You have to be realistic.”

“You just have to take what you can get.”

“Better to play it safe.”

“You should be real - these are your only options.”

“If you don’t settle, you’ll get something you really don’t want.”



Settling is the NORM.



LOADS of people will try talking you out of following your heart. They will try to convince you SETTLING is the ONLY option. They will try to convince you it is the RIGHT way.



But behind SETTLING is always FEAR.



We are AFRAID we will fail.

We are AFRAID we will fall short.

We are AFRAID things won’t work out.

We are AFRAID of not being in CONTROL.

We are AFRAID of DISCOMFORT.

We are AFRAID of PAIN.

We are AFRAID of UNCERTAINTY.



We are SURROUNDED by people governed by FEAR.



What is the COST?