Updated: Dec 13, 2021
You say you want a man who knows how to treat you well, yet you joke about men being so oblivious and dense they need “training”.
You say you want a man who is deep and intelligent, yet you joke about men being simple and “stupid”.
You say you want a man who respects your boundaries and limits, yet you refer to men being incapable of controlling their animalistic impulses.
You say you want a man who takes responsibility for his behavior and feelings, yet you talk about men being unable to understand or seek treatment for their own wounds and trauma.
You say you want a man who honors you as a partner and celebrates your strength, yet you joke about men being at the mercy of their fragile egos and need for competition.
You say you want a man to see you for everything you are and not just your body, yet you joke about men being lustful and incapable of anything but sexual desire.
You say you want a man who has empathy, emotions, and is in touch with himself, yet you refer to men as having simple, basic needs, lacking any real complexity or thought.
I CAN PROMISE YOU THIS:
If we keep reducing men to simple, stupid, apathetic, egotisical animals in our “harmless jokes” and demeaning beliefs, we will keep getting EXACTLY that experience of them.
You say you want a PARTNER?
Then YOU will need to level up YOUR BELIEF in who men ARE.
If you know you have an unconscious habit of talking about men in this damaging way and you are ready to CHANGE IT - if you are ready to learn how to heal the gender wounds and programming that keeps you stuck in frustrating relationships - you are ready to become a Warrior Goddess. It's time to confront and deconstruct the programming that keeps you stuck in a loop you don’t even realize you’re stuck in.
The time of HIERARCHY RELATIONSHIPS is OVER. It’s time to usher in mindblowing, collaborative PARTNERSHIPS.
If you want to keep your not so funny demeaning jokes about men, scroll on. If you’re ready to blow up this old paradigm, keep doing the work, keep deconstructing, and keep your eye on the truth no matter what you may lose.