
Jillian Aurora
- Mar 31, 2022
- 2 min
How to spot a predator
Every time I hear of a good hearted individual who has been exploited, taken advantage of, and preyed upon, I feel a burning and...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jun 11, 2021
- 2 min
He Deserves More Than Your Pity
Pity Love… Some of you are out there thinking… “I can’t leave because he won’t know what to do without me” “I don’t know what he would do...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jun 9, 2021
- 2 min
STOP With The Pretend Collaboration
I am all about women’s empowerment. I am all about their success. I am all about them CRUSHING their financial goals and being the BOSS...
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Jillian Aurora
- Apr 28, 2021
- 2 min
The Illusion of Easy Exits
“There’s always a time to easily exit a relationship. It’s during those bad times that define a true power couple.” I read this comment a...
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Jillian Aurora
- Apr 26, 2021
- 1 min
Let's Talk About Trust
“I don’t know how to learn to trust again.” I hear this OVER and OVER. Then I hear some version of desperately trying to figure out how...
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Jillian Aurora
- Apr 25, 2021
- 2 min
You Have Earned Your Discernment
Your discernment is getting stronger. You are seeing the red flags. You are learning to trust yourself and that “gut feeling”. So, you...
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Jillian Aurora
- Apr 24, 2021
- 2 min
You Say You Want A Man Who....
You say you want a man who knows how to treat you well, yet you joke about men being so oblivious and dense they need “training”. You say...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 27, 2021
- 1 min
"I Don't Accept No For An Answer"
“I don’t accept no for an answer” I have heard this statement glorified throughout my life. Endless persistence and determination. It’s...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 26, 2021
- 2 min
Stop Shutting It Out
Over the course of recovering from my codependency, I thought I had really mastered the idea of letting go of all expectations. I could...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 20, 2021
- 2 min
It's Time We Take Responsibility
When a woman shows up with a black eye, do you look for a reason to excuse his violence? When a woman is embarrassed about the verbal...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 19, 2021
- 2 min
It Is True
It is true, I hope to make some big changes in this world. It is true, I hope to see more empowerment for those suppressed. It is true, I...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 15, 2021
- 2 min
The Importance of Coaches
I have been as annoyed as the next person at the endless marketing content of women’s business coaches. Sometimes they are pushy....
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 8, 2021
- 1 min
I Am My Own
March 1st, my name legally changed, for the fourth and final time. It changes to something with meaning. It is something I hand picked,...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 26, 2021
- 1 min
Let's Talk About Loyalty
We traditionally see loyalty as a good thing. It’s one of the most POWERFUL values of the “good girl” identity. “I am GOOD because I am...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 24, 2021
- 2 min
Set the Standard
I talk a lot about unapologetically identifying what you want and setting the standards required to be in your presence. And, I have...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 19, 2021
- 2 min
Boundaries
Often when people start to wake up to the idea of boundary setting, it is overwhelming. What boundaries do I set? Am I really allowed to...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 17, 2021
- 2 min
You Were Created for MORE
You were created for more than having a relationship. Yet, many of us women live as if it is our sole objective. Like we are incomplete...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 15, 2021
- 1 min
Settling is Always Based in Fear
“You can’t always get what you want.” “You have to be realistic.” “You just have to take what you can get.” “Better to play it safe.”...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 13, 2021
- 2 min
We All Struggle With Boundaries Sometimes
You might be surprised to hear I still struggle with setting boundaries. Sometimes, desperately so. Yes, the same Jillian Aurora who’s...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 12, 2021
- 2 min
Relationships Require Settling?
My whole life, I have heard people say “relationships require compromise”, “every relationship requires a degree of settling”, and “you...
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