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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 6, 2021
- 2 min
We All Need a Little Grace in Order to Grow
It’s become really “cool” and acceptable to self-righteously condemn those that don’t agree with us. It’s never been easier to justify....
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 5, 2021
- 2 min
Let's Talk About Manifestation
“If I just ‘manifest better’ my relationship will improve.” “People around me are abusive because they are a reflection of my inner...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 23, 2020
- 3 min
Your Excuses are as Real as You Say They Are
I find it interesting, some people think I have the world and other people wonder how I could possibly be happy living so simply. Some...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 19, 2020
- 3 min
Violence is Not Unpredictable
We like to think red flags are mysterious. Hard to spot until it’s too late. Evasive. I disagree. I used to believe I “couldn’t know” if...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 14, 2020
- 2 min
Accountability is LOVE
If I say I’m committed to being honest and you catch me lying, DON’T be PATIENT with me. If I say I’m committed to being real and you...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 9, 2020
- 1 min
Our "Politeness" is Killing Us
As women, we have been deeply conditioned to be polite at all costs. A man compliments you? Smile and say “thank you”. A man offers help?...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 7, 2020
- 3 min
Know the Red Flag Predictions
Many years of my life, I thought domestic violence was black and white. It was easy to spot. I knew I’d never be a victim, because I...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 5, 2020
- 1 min
Saying YES Will Always Have a Cost
Saying YES to courage and freedom will require you to say NO to a thousand safe and cautious opportunities. Saying YES to relationships...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 2, 2020
- 2 min
One YES will require 1000 NO's.
You know that thing you really really want? That thing your heart LONGS for? Maybe it’s a relationship defined by mutuality, respect,...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 28, 2020
- 2 min
Surround yourself with people who FEED YOUR FIRE
I stopped hanging out with polite, nice women, who were concerned about their image and reputation. I stopped hanging out with people who...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 23, 2020
- 3 min
You get to set whatever the fuck BOUNDARIES you want.
“I don’t drink.” It amazes me the amount of discomfort these words cause. Most of the time, I simply forget drinking is a normal part of...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 21, 2020
- 1 min
SUFFERING does not equal LOVE.
“Everyone else is a fucking POSER. I care about you for REAL.” “I won’t be like everyone else who has abandoned you.” We have often...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 13, 2020
- 2 min
You can't do it ALL. Make your choice.
I used to have the biggest problem letting go of ANYTHING. Relationships Jobs Things Opportunities Commitments Businesses Projects I was...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 4, 2020
- 2 min
Are You Really "Over It"?
If I had a nickel for every time I heard a woman say she “just couldn’t do this anymore”, I’d be retired. I remember many moments like...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 21, 2020
- 2 min
Stop With The Bullshit EXCUSES
I hear women say all the time that they do not have money to invest in a coach, course, retreat, intensive, class, etc. I watch these...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 16, 2020
- 1 min
Freedom
What’s your freedom going to cost you? It may cost you your fancy house. It may cost you your elaborate vacations. It may cost you your...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 14, 2020
- 2 min
The Hidden Facade
You don’t comment or like my posts, because it’s too painful. You read and soak up every word of validation, but you’re stuck in your...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 30, 2020
- 2 min
I'm Not "LUCKY"
As I sat next to my Love as he woke up from surgery, I was struck by all the feels. The hospital was a place I was not a stranger to. I...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 19, 2020
- 2 min
You Cannot LOVE Yourself and BETRAY Yourself at the Same Time.
“But the majority of the time he’s good to me.” “It’s only a small portion of time that he yells and breaks things.” “He only calls me...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 16, 2020
- 3 min
Twisting the Truth
Today is the 9 year anniversary of the day I walked into AlAnon. I had many years of learning and mastery ahead of me since that day, and...
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