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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 10, 2021
- 1 min
Tears are Nothing to Apologize for
We have been taught emotion is something to be problem solved. Something to be gotten rid of. Something to “treat”. Something to keep...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jun 5, 2021
- 4 min
We Have A Problem With Men's Violence
Ahmad Al Aliwi Alissa killed 10 people on March 22, 2021 at a market in Boulder CO. 21 year old male, no criminal record, motivation...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 15, 2021
- 2 min
The Importance of Coaches
I have been as annoyed as the next person at the endless marketing content of women’s business coaches. Sometimes they are pushy....
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 21, 2020
- 1 min
My Thanks to Divine Kings
Many men find my message threatening. They don’t want their partners following me. They don’t want their partners reading my work. They...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 19, 2020
- 3 min
Violence is Not Unpredictable
We like to think red flags are mysterious. Hard to spot until it’s too late. Evasive. I disagree. I used to believe I “couldn’t know” if...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 18, 2020
- 1 min
Get NAKED
A little over a year ago, I made a decision. I decided I was willing to be true to myself and my calling, no matter the cost. I would be...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 16, 2020
- 2 min
PROMISES Are Not GUARANTEES
“He VOWED to be married FOREVER.” “He CAN’T just walk away. He PROMISED.” “He HAS to change because he PROMISED.” “He HAS to stop...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 12, 2020
- 2 min
FORGIVENESS
“Be the bigger person. Forgive.” “Why should I be the one to forgive when I’m the victim?!” “Staying angry is like drinking poison and...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 9, 2020
- 1 min
Our "Politeness" is Killing Us
As women, we have been deeply conditioned to be polite at all costs. A man compliments you? Smile and say “thank you”. A man offers help?...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 25, 2020
- 2 min
But What If They Think I'm Difficult?
I’m a SNOB. And I’m ok with that. Back in the day, I avoided the perception of being a snob. High maintenance. Picky. Difficult....
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 20, 2020
- 2 min
Condemnation Solves Nothing
All throughout this year, I have been pressured to pick a political side. And I have been called every name in the book when I have...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 22, 2020
- 1 min
You Aren't a Slot Machine
“I feel guilty I don’t love him back.” “He’s been so nice to me.” “He’s been such a gentleman.” “He’s bought me lots of nice things.”...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 21, 2020
- 2 min
Stop With The Bullshit EXCUSES
I hear women say all the time that they do not have money to invest in a coach, course, retreat, intensive, class, etc. I watch these...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 19, 2020
- 2 min
But... MONEY
“You’ll never travel without me.” “You’ll never be able to get nice things without me.” “You like this home? You’ll never live in a place...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 18, 2020
- 2 min
Nobody Knew
In the past, I have been an excellent secret keeper. I could contain the worst news. I could carry the deepest pain. I could cover up the...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 14, 2020
- 2 min
"THAT" Thing
You know that thing you feel totally unprepared to talk about? That thing that brings up shame, embarrassment, fear, and insecurity? That...
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Jillian Aurora
- Aug 27, 2020
- 1 min
What's Standing in the Way of Your High Standards
If I hold high standards for those allowed in my space, that would mean... “I’m being a bitch.” “I’m selfish.” “I’m being high...
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Jillian Aurora
- Aug 7, 2020
- 2 min
Honor Your Sensitivity
I’ve been told I need therapy because I am sensitive. Because I feel my work with such intensity. Because I often feel overwhelmed with...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 26, 2020
- 2 min
Love takes COURAGE.
"But I really love him and I know he loves me.” This is the response I hear, over and over, when women voice concerns and frustrations...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 23, 2020
- 2 min
Tolerating Abuse
It never ceases to amaze me the amount of pain and absolutely outrageous behaviors I watch women tolerate for YEARS. It’s an endurance...
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