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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 31, 2022
- 2 min
How to spot a predator
Every time I hear of a good hearted individual who has been exploited, taken advantage of, and preyed upon, I feel a burning and...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jun 11, 2021
- 2 min
He Deserves More Than Your Pity
Pity Love… Some of you are out there thinking… “I can’t leave because he won’t know what to do without me” “I don’t know what he would do...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jun 5, 2021
- 4 min
We Have A Problem With Men's Violence
Ahmad Al Aliwi Alissa killed 10 people on March 22, 2021 at a market in Boulder CO. 21 year old male, no criminal record, motivation...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 6, 2020
- 2 min
The Cost of Personal Freedom
It’s been two years. Two years since I blew up my life and burned all the bridges. I live my life on my own terms. I don’t settle for...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 18, 2020
- 2 min
Nobody Knew
In the past, I have been an excellent secret keeper. I could contain the worst news. I could carry the deepest pain. I could cover up the...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 14, 2020
- 2 min
The Hidden Facade
You don’t comment or like my posts, because it’s too painful. You read and soak up every word of validation, but you’re stuck in your...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 29, 2020
- 4 min
Necessary Endings Require Courage
My job is walking women through their winter seasons of life. It’s holding their hands through the grief of letting go and gut wrenching...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 23, 2020
- 2 min
Tolerating Abuse
It never ceases to amaze me the amount of pain and absolutely outrageous behaviors I watch women tolerate for YEARS. It’s an endurance...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 11, 2020
- 2 min
I’m NOT sorry for BREAKING your RULES.
“You’re so boring. Can’t you be more interesting?” “Stop acting like a slut.” “You never put out. How can you expect me to be loyal?” “If...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jun 30, 2020
- 2 min
SECRECY Perpetuates ABUSE
"You destroyed my life when you got that restraining order.” “If you hadn’t told everyone about our private business, we’d still have a...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jun 29, 2020
- 2 min
MINIMIZING
“I’m ok.” “Life is good.” “I have no complaints.” “My relationship is pretty smooth right now.” “Things are going much better.” Yeah. Uh...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jun 26, 2020
- 2 min
YOU ARE NOT HIS REHAB.
“You’ve become so boring, can you blame me for drinking?” “I drink because you’re so much drama all the time.” “If you weren’t such a...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jun 25, 2020
- 2 min
Grieving the LIVING
“He was such a jerk! Just leave him in dust and don’t look back!” “Have you seen what he did to you? WHY do you keep going back?” “You...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jun 21, 2020
- 3 min
The APPROPRIATE Response to Abuse
"Your silence is deafening.” “Why aren’t you speaking?” “You need to listen.” “No, you need to speak up.” “You’re speaking? You have...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jun 9, 2020
- 3 min
NO ONE is Exempt From Bad Behavior
Racists are good people. Sexists are good people. Addicts are good people. Abusers are good people. Murders are good people. IF THIS...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jun 6, 2020
- 3 min
It's Time To Take a Stand Against OPPRESSION
I’ve shared many times before about the grief and betrayal I feel about women’s oppression. It is still shocking to me that, for...
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Jillian Aurora
- Apr 21, 2020
- 2 min
You don't OWE anyone.
“Quit your bitchin. You have life so good.” “I pay for EVERYTHING. You have it made. You have no right to complain.” “How dare you speak...
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Jillian Aurora
- Apr 10, 2020
- 1 min
You have NEVER made a mistake in your life
What if you could trust that your decisions in the past were the EXACT right decisions for you? Even if they caused pain. Even if your...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 12, 2020
- 2 min
What is a Goddess?
What is a Goddess? The forbidden and forgotten energy the word holds has long pushed the very thought of her out of our minds. She’s...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 13, 2020
- 3 min
You NEVER deserved to be abused.
“I deserved it.” “If I wouldn’t have mouthed off like that, I wouldn’t have gotten hurt.” “If I would have just agreed, he wouldn’t...
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