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Creating a Life in Europe


Higher Education in Europe: A Message of Hope
When College Stops Feeling Like an Option In the United States, higher education is supposed to ignite our passion for deeper learning, potential, and possibility. For many people, it feels more like a locked gate with a price tag hanging off the handle. Families watch tuition climb into numbers that would once have bought two houses. Students do the math and realize they are being asked to mortgage their entire future before it has even begun. Quietly, a lot of people simply

Jillian Aurora
4 days ago7 min read


Between Progress and Tradition: Romania’s Uneasy Relationship with LGBTQ+
Romania stands at a cultural crossroads — modern in law, traditional in spirit, and still deciding which part of itself will define the future. The Contradiction at the Heart of Modern Romania At first glance, Romania seems firmly part of the European modern project. It is a member of the European Union, bound by human-rights conventions, and home to a young generation that travels, studies, and works across a continent that increasingly values equality. Yet beneath that Euro

Jillian Aurora
Nov 105 min read


The Quiet Guardians of the Courtyard: How Romanians Love Their Cats
Every city and village in Romania seems to be charmed with the presence of cats. They stretch across sunlit steps, curl up on cafe chairs, and nap on cobblestones as if they own the streets. Here, cats exist in a shared space between domestic and wild, beloved and free. They are not seen as pests. They are accepted, fed, and adored by nearly everyone. When you walk down a Romanian street, you’ll see bowls of food left under park benches, tiny shelters tucked beside apartment

Jillian Aurora
Nov 93 min read


The Storyteller Who Chased Immortality: Corneliu Țepeluș and the Living Soul of Romania
The Keeper of the Flame In every culture, there are keepers of the flame—those who carry the memory of a people across generations, adapting it to new languages, new screens, and new worlds. In Romania, one of those keepers is Corneliu Țepeluș, a filmmaker, storyteller, and cultural ambassador whose life has been shaped by the timeless human pursuit of immortality—not the kind that denies death, but the kind that ensures meaning endures. His work bridges the mystical and the

Jillian Aurora
Oct 274 min read


Holding Onto Hope When Everything Feels Lost
There comes a point in every great transition when the horizon disappears. The plans that once gave you direction crumble. The numbers stop making sense. The people who promised to stay fade into their own uncertainty. And suddenly, you’re left standing in the ashes of what used to feel solid, with no clear path ahead. It’s a hollow place. But it’s also where something sacred begins. Because when everything else is stripped away, hope isn’t just an idea anymore. It becomes an

Jillian Aurora
Oct 233 min read


How to Budget for the Leap
Once you realize that life abroad is possible, not just for the wealthy, not just for the lucky — then the next question naturally is: How do I make it real? Money is often the last wall standing between people and their freedom choice. Not because they don’t have enough, but because they’ve never really seen how far what they do have can go. The moment relocation becomes a tangible option, it stops being a fantasy. The next step is to break it down into real numbers. It's no

Jillian Aurora
Oct 205 min read


The Myth of Safety: Romania vs. The United States
Many Americans grow up believing the United States is the safest place on earth. We picture flashing sirens, neighborhood watch signs, and the comfort of knowing that law and order are part of who we are. And we grow up assuming that many far away countries are dangerous, corrupt, and unpredictable. But as I started learning about Romania, I found the truth is practically the opposite. When you compare the numbers and the everyday lived experience, Romania is statistically sa

Jillian Aurora
Oct 184 min read


You Might Already Have Enough: What Your U.S. Budget Can Do Abroad
If you’re living in the United States on $2,000–$4,000 a month, you know that it’s barely enough to get by in America. You’ve felt the tightness of rent swallowing half your paycheck, groceries that double in price without warning, and a sense that no matter how carefully you plan, one unexpected bill could break everything. But here’s what most people don’t realize: that same income, which leaves you gasping for air in the U.S., can stretch in much of Eastern Europe. The sam

Jillian Aurora
Oct 175 min read


When Travel Stops Being Just Travel
There was a time when traveling from the United States carried a kind of lightness. You could say, I’m going abroad for a few weeks, and...

Jillian Aurora
Oct 133 min read


When You Feel Stuck: Leaving with Little
For many people, the idea of leaving their country feels impossible. They may dream of building new lives in Europe and think, that’s not possible for me. Maybe they’re living paycheck to paycheck, maybe they’ve lost everything, maybe they’re simply too exhausted to imagine another version of life. But here’s the truth: you don’t have to be wealthy to begin again. You have to be willing, and curious, and dedicated. The Myth of the “Rich Expat” When people imagine moving abroa

Jillian Aurora
Oct 114 min read


Trusting the Unknown: When Everything Falls Away
For those who have lost almost everything and are still daring to begin again. When you choose to move—truly move, not as a tourist or an adventurer, but as someone rebuilding from the ashes—you step into a life that demands trust. Not the easy kind of trust that comes with clear plans and safety nets, but the raw, trembling kind that asks you to keep walking even when the ground disappears beneath your feet. For some of us, relocation was not a luxury. It was a necessity. We

Jillian Aurora
Oct 93 min read


The Privilege and the Purpose of Travel
There’s a certain arrogance that sometimes shows up in conversations about travel—the quiet assumption that those who haven’t seen the...

Jillian Aurora
Oct 73 min read


Guarding Your Hearth: Emotional Boundaries in Times of Change
Relocating to a new country brings obvious challenges, but one of the most overlooked challenges is emotional. You will hear many voices along the way, and not all of them will strengthen you. Some will encourage, others will criticize, and a few may even sabotage. Learning to set boundaries is not just wise—it is survival. Moving is more than a purge of things. It is a fire. It burns away the superficial and leaves only what is sturdy enough to endure. Relationships are ofte

Jillian Aurora
Oct 33 min read


Carrying the Flame: An Act of Resistance
When the ground shakes beneath us, many face the same agonizing question: Do I stay and fight, or do I go to protect myself and those I love? Leaving can feel like betrayal. Staying can feel like self-destruction. But seeking safety has never meant surrendering your values. Stepping away does not mean abandoning the struggle. Survival, too, has always been part of resistance. The Burden of Guilt Those who leave often carry a heavy guilt. They imagine neighbors whispering, you

Jillian Aurora
Oct 13 min read


Getting Oriented When You First Arrive in Eastern Europe
Landing in a new country isn’t just about stepping off the plane. It’s about finding your bearings—learning where to buy groceries, how to greet your neighbors, which bus to catch, and which stories have shaped the streets you’re walking down. At first, it can feel dizzying. Signs are in a different alphabet, shops close at unfamiliar hours, and the little routines you once took for granted suddenly require new learning. Disorientation is part of the process. Over time, thoug

Jillian Aurora
Oct 13 min read


The Things I Miss About Fall in the U.S.
Autumn in Transylvania is breathtaking — golden forests draped across the Carpathians, mist curling through medieval towers, markets...

Jillian Aurora
Sep 302 min read


Making the Medical Transition Abroad: Health, Medication, and Care in Eastern Europe
When you relocate, you don’t just pack boxes. You carry your body, your routines, and the steady rituals of care that keep you grounded. Medicines and therapy sessions may not seem as visible as furniture or heirlooms, but they are part of your hearth — the daily warmth that makes a place livable. Moving to Eastern Europe can raise questions: Will I find my medication there? What if I get sick before I’m registered in the system? Will therapy still be an option? These worrie

Jillian Aurora
Sep 293 min read


Keeping the Hearth Alive in Transient Times
A hearth doesn’t disappear just because the walls around it are temporary. Sometimes the fire burns in borrowed spaces — a short-term...

Jillian Aurora
Sep 232 min read


Brașov: A City of Crossroads, Legends, and Resilience
Brașov sits at the foot of the Carpathian Mountains, surrounded by forests so lush they seem to breathe. Today it is one of Romania’s...

Jillian Aurora
Sep 232 min read


Quiet Steps Toward Leaving the U.S.
Leaving a country is never as simple as buying a ticket. It is layered with paperwork, planning, grief, and hope. For those of us...

Jillian Aurora
Sep 223 min read
HearthFinder: Building safe futures, one hearth at a time.
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