Creating a Life in Europe

Immigration is often framed as a decisive break, the before and the after, but that framing hasn't matched my lived reality. What I have experienced instead is a long, unsettled middle. An experience where one foot remains planted in what I lost (or still attempting to untangle from), while the other figures out how to step into a life that is still forming. This in-between space is not dramatic or cinematic. It is quiet, demanding, and persistent. It follows me through ordin

People often ask how I ended up in Romania, and I have trouble finding the words because my brain is flooded with all the reasons . There isn't one main reason or one moment that decided our direction. It was a long process of research, noticing what felt solid and what kind of future felt possible. Romania revealed its welcoming charm and promise of a dream through a lot of curiosity and thorough questioning. A Landscape That Felt Familiar Before It Felt Foreign The Carpathi

Thanksgiving used to be one of the most intentional days of my year. Not because of patriotism or tradition—actually the opposite. For a decade, I opened my home to anyone who wanted a place to land. My table wasn’t about turkey or spectacle; it was an annual practice in truth-telling and community. I cooked Indigenous foods, played PBS’s We Shall Remain , and held space for conversation about the real history of the holiday. It was part education, part ritual, and part quiet

There are cities that decorate for Christmas, and then there is Brașov — a place that seems to exhale winter enchantment from its medieval soul. As December settles over the Carpathians, the old town begins its transformation. Lights unfurl across rooftops, garlands drape between centuries-old walls, and the entire landscape takes on the soft glow of a fairytale. Romanians put serious, loving effort into creating a festive world, and you can feel that intention in every illum

When College Stops Feeling Like an Option In the United States, higher education is supposed to ignite our passion for deeper learning, potential, and possibility. For many people, it feels more like a locked gate with a price tag hanging off the handle. Families watch tuition climb into numbers that would once have bought two houses. Students do the math and realize they are being asked to mortgage their entire future before it has even begun. Quietly, a lot of people simply

Romania stands at a cultural crossroads — modern in law, traditional in spirit, and still deciding which part of itself will define the future. The Contradiction at the Heart of Modern Romania At first glance, Romania seems firmly part of the European modern project. It is a member of the European Union, bound by human-rights conventions, and home to a young generation that travels, studies, and works across a continent that increasingly values equality. Yet beneath that Euro

Every city and village in Romania seems to be charmed with the presence of cats. They stretch across sunlit steps, curl up on cafe chairs, and nap on cobblestones as if they own the streets. Here, cats exist in a shared space between domestic and wild, beloved and free. They are not seen as pests. They are accepted, fed, and adored by nearly everyone. When you walk down a Romanian street, you’ll see bowls of food left under park benches, tiny shelters tucked beside apartment

The Keeper of the Flame In every culture, there are keepers of the flame—those who carry the memory of a people across generations, adapting it to new languages, new screens, and new worlds. In Romania, one of those keepers is Corneliu Țepeluș, a filmmaker, storyteller, and cultural ambassador whose life has been shaped by the timeless human pursuit of immortality—not the kind that denies death, but the kind that ensures meaning endures. His work bridges the mystical and the

There comes a point in every great transition when the horizon disappears. The plans that once gave you direction crumble. The numbers stop making sense. The people who promised to stay fade into their own uncertainty. And suddenly, you’re left standing in the ashes of what used to feel solid, with no clear path ahead. It’s a hollow place. But it’s also where something sacred begins. Because when everything else is stripped away, hope isn’t just an idea anymore. It becomes an

Once you realize that life abroad is possible, not just for the wealthy, not just for the lucky — then the next question naturally is: How do I make it real? Money is often the last wall standing between people and their freedom choice. Not because they don’t have enough, but because they’ve never really seen how far what they do have can go. The moment relocation becomes a tangible option, it stops being a fantasy. The next step is to break it down into real numbers. It's no

Many Americans grow up believing the United States is the safest place on earth. We picture flashing sirens, neighborhood watch signs, and the comfort of knowing that law and order are part of who we are. And we grow up assuming that many far away countries are dangerous, corrupt, and unpredictable. But as I started learning about Romania, I found the truth is practically the opposite. When you compare the numbers and the everyday lived experience, Romania is statistically sa

If you’re living in the United States on $2,000–$4,000 a month, you know that it’s barely enough to get by in America. You’ve felt the tightness of rent swallowing half your paycheck, groceries that double in price without warning, and a sense that no matter how carefully you plan, one unexpected bill could break everything. But here’s what most people don’t realize: that same income, which leaves you gasping for air in the U.S., can stretch in much of Eastern Europe. The sam

There was a time when traveling from the United States carried a kind of lightness. You could say, I’m going abroad for a few weeks,  and...

For many people, the idea of leaving their country feels impossible. They may dream of building new lives in Europe and think, that’s not possible for me. Maybe they’re living paycheck to paycheck, maybe they’ve lost everything, maybe they’re simply too exhausted to imagine another version of life. But here’s the truth: you don’t have to be wealthy to begin again. You have to be willing, and curious, and dedicated. The Myth of the “Rich Expat” When people imagine moving abroa

For those who have lost almost everything and are still daring to begin again. When you choose to move—truly move, not as a tourist or an adventurer, but as someone rebuilding from the ashes—you step into a life that demands trust. Not the easy kind of trust that comes with clear plans and safety nets, but the raw, trembling kind that asks you to keep walking even when the ground disappears beneath your feet. For some of us, relocation was not a luxury. It was a necessity. We

There’s a certain arrogance that sometimes shows up in conversations about travel—the quiet assumption that those who haven’t seen the world are somehow smaller for it. That's always bothered me. It feels like a kind of blindness, a forgetting of what it costs just to survive, let alone explore. For many people, travel isn’t about lack of curiosity. It’s about rent. About groceries. About a car payment or medical care. When you’re living month to month, even a short trip can

Relocating to a new country brings obvious challenges, but one of the most overlooked challenges is emotional. You will hear many voices along the way, and not all of them will strengthen you. Some will encourage, others will criticize, and a few may even sabotage. Learning to set boundaries is not just wise—it is survival. Moving is more than a purge of things. It is a fire. It burns away the superficial and leaves only what is sturdy enough to endure. Relationships are ofte

When the ground shakes beneath us, many face the same agonizing question: Do I stay and fight, or do I go to protect myself and those I love? Leaving can feel like betrayal. Staying can feel like self-destruction. But seeking safety has never meant surrendering your values. Stepping away does not mean abandoning the struggle. Survival, too, has always been part of resistance. The Burden of Guilt Those who leave often carry a heavy guilt. They imagine neighbors whispering, you

Landing in a new country isn’t just about stepping off the plane. It’s about finding your bearings—learning where to buy groceries, how to greet your neighbors, which bus to catch, and which stories have shaped the streets you’re walking down. At first, it can feel dizzying. Signs are in a different alphabet, shops close at unfamiliar hours, and the little routines you once took for granted suddenly require new learning. Disorientation is part of the process. Over time, thoug

Autumn in Transylvania is breathtaking — golden forests draped across the Carpathians, mist curling through medieval towers, markets spilling over with apples, chestnuts, and mushrooms. It is the kind of beauty that feels ancient, rooted, and solemn. And yet, as the air cools and the leaves begin to fall, I find myself aching for another kind of autumn — the one lingering on the streets of New Castle, Pennsylvania, US. I miss the small rituals of my American fall. The way gro