IT'S TIME TO
have your own back...
YOU never have to be a survivor again.
IMAGINE being confident of your decisions, your discernment, and your own personal authority.
Imagine being able to clearly and confidently spot a potential healthy partnership OR clearly see one that is NOT.
Imagine having the confidence and self worth to unapologetically say NO to ANY partnerships, friendships, jobs, or communities that are not a fit, instead of feeling guilty and obligated to compromise your standards.
Imagine being able to clearly and effortlessly define your standards, values, and boundaries AND having full confidence they will be respected and honored, in every arena of your life.
Imagine being able to trust yourself SO FULLY that you know you will have your own back when all the chips are down. That you will NEVER BETRAY YOURSELF AGAIN for any relationship.
Imagine sharing your presence with ONLY people who are far more concerned with you loving YOURSELF than they are about you loving THEM and their ideas.
Imagine being surrounded by people who are fully present in their OWN lives, passionate about their OWN dreams, and deeply committed to their OWN values.
What would it feel like, to have relationships characterized by HONOR, RESPECT, PASSION, HEALTH, CONNECTION, EQUALITY, AND TEAMWORK?
Wouldn't it be SUCH A FUCKING RELIEF to know, with confidence, that you won't betray your own dreams at the slightest disapproval from a loved one? That you won't blow past red flags, for fear of appearing rude? That you won't dull your own brilliance, for fear of offending someone else's tender ego? That you won't sacrifice parts of YOURSELF to make someone else more comfortable?
What if you could know you could TRUST YOURSELF? What if you KNEW you you would NEVER betray yourself for another damaging relationship AGAIN?
I HAVE THE AUDACITY TO BELIEVE YOU CAN.
the Unapologetic course will teach you how to:
1. Defy your inner GOOD GIRL, who is constantly sabotaging your standards and telling you you have to settle and accommodate and compromise.
2. Get super fucking clear and unapologetic about YOUR values, desires, and standards.
3. Develop fierce and reliable discernment about any potential red flags.
4. Become GUILT FREE when you honor yourself and your boundaries.
5. Invite in INCREDIBLE relationships without losing YOURSELF.
6. Trust YOURSELF without constantly second guessing and deferring to someone else's opinion.
7. Become a fierce and unapologetic fucking goddess, who has her own back.
An intense transformative toolkit
delivered in an eight week chrysalis, so you no longer have to WONDER if you possess the skills and ability to be true to yourself.
"Through your work, I've confronted myself and found that I was seeking my worth deep inside the choices of my partner, as if them choosing me over their array of options somehow made me better. Worthy. Because, then, I must be loveable. Wow! Through this insight, I no longer give power to the irrelevant preferences of someone else."
"What I know is my last relationship challenged me to seek out YOU. Your perspectives have changed my life. This relationship would've continued for years the way it was, with me still oblivious to what the hell a boundary even was. I now have the ability to identify what I want and need in a relationship."
"I am a survivor. Never again, thanks to you and Unapologetic."
"I told him NO and stood my ground for the first time. He even showed up at my house to argue. This was a HUGE win and I felt so powerful! I am no longer responsible for his choices or his happiness. I am FREE now. I am Unapologetic!"
"Because of Unapologetic, I love me more and understand myself better. Here in South Africa, there is too much gender inequality, so I am standing up becoming the light in the darkness and voice for my girls. I have been talking on a radio show about Self Love. We're gonna make it. Eventually, we will be free to be our true selves again. Unapologetic gives me strength to keep fighting for all women."
"Unapologetic gives women the tools they need to put the pieces of their lives together again. They find the permission to take care of themselves and the wisdom to understand their circumstances. That is priceless. You give them their lives back."
"When you finally remember who the fuck you are, the game changes."
"Today I let go of a relationship that had been emotionally abusive for decades. Today I stood up and told him 'Never Again'. I mourn the relationship I thought I had and I am grateful to understand now what is appropriate to expect in my relationships."
"I can't betray myself anymore. Every time I waver, you are in the back of my head saying 'Dammit you deserve so much better!' Thanks to Unapologetic, I know my worth and my standards reflect that."
EIGHT RECORDED MODULES
The Unapologetic Course includes eight thorough modules, delivered through self study video and slide presentations.
The modules are as follows:
1. Self Acceptance and Forgiveness
4. Getting Hopeless
6. Building Discernment
7. Skills to Thrive
8. Self Trust
Eight weeks. Life changing content. Melt into your chrysalis and finish with your wings.
At the end of each module, you will find a thought provoking and activating written exercise. It is suggested that you take one to two weeks to complete each module, in order to get the most out of it. Time and attention is required, but the payoff for this type of self care investment is more important than any other commitment you will ever make.
It is highly recommended that you buddy up with a friend or acquaintance who is interested in taking this course. The Unapologetic course contains some heavy content and it is ideal to work within a group or partnership. If you would prefer a partner but don't know of anyone appropriate or available, consider asking The Unapologetic Empire support group for a buddy. In addition to the emotional benefits of having a buddy, it can be very helpful to share the cost with a small group as well.
In this course, I teach the skills necessary to build healthy relationships, without losing yourself in the process. I dive deep into the difficult topics. I share from my experience, from my insight, and from my years of studies. I do not follow norms and I do not source my truth from credentials or carefully crafted positions of power. I follow my own intuition and discernment above all and I teach you to grow that same power and self trust within yourself.
I teach from the belief that YOU are the expert in YOUR life and in YOUR relationships. I teach from the belief that the QUESTIONS I ask are FAR more important and powerful than my own OPINIONS ever could be.
Each week after each module, a corresponding worksheet will be available within the course curriculum. As always, you can take the content as deep as you would like. All of my content is carefully crafted to prompt insight and awareness. The more you understand yourself and your patterns, the easier it is to shift the areas you desire change.
All Unapologetic Retreat participants are welcomed to join The Unapologetic Empire free support group. Inevitably, we will move A LOT of stuff through you, out of you, and into you, during this retreat. After experiencing so many changes and transitions, follow up support is ideal. The Unapologetic Empire is a great place to continue your journey, receive support, and access some understanding and accountability. You are sure to meet a whole host of fellow Goddesses, fierce and Unapologetic!
The Unapologetic Woman
“You’re so boring. Can’t you be more interesting?”
“Stop acting like a slut.”
“You never put out. How can you expect me to be loyal?”
“If you weren’t such a bitch, I wouldn’t have to respond the way I do.”
“You’re such a burden. Do you realize how much work I put in for you?”
“Anyone would drink if they were married to you.”
“You’re such a terrible mom. You’re destroying our kids.”
“You act like it’s hard to do a little cleaning and cooking. Stop complaining.”
“You have no sense of humor. Can’t you take a joke?”
“You’ve totally let yourself go.”
“You’re so spoiled. You have no right to want more.”
“You want a career? Am I not enough for you?”
I’M SORRY. I’M SO SORRY.
For most of our lives, we have spent our time apologizing. Apologizing for not measuring up. Apologizing for not fitting into the box we were told to squeeze into. Apologizing for failing to create someone else’s happiness.
I’M NOT SORRY.
I’m NOT sorry for letting you down.
I’m NOT sorry for not fitting into your box.
I’m NOT sorry for BREAKING your RULES.
I’m NOT sorry for my own DESIRES.
I’m NOT sorry for my needs and expenses.
I’m NOT sorry for my parenting decisions.
I’m NOT sorry for the size and shape of my BODY.
I’m NOT sorry for DISAGREEING.
I’m NOT sorry I am unwilling to sacrifice myself anymore.
I’m NOT sorry for my interests and AMBITION.
I’m NOT sorry for WANTING MORE.
I’m NOT sorry DEMEANING COMMENTS aren’t funny to me.
I’m NOT sorry for VALUING my own LABOR.
I’m NOT sorry for how I choose to CARE FOR MYSELF.
I’m NOT sorry for requiring PERMISSION to access my body.
I’m NOT sorry for having REQUIREMENTS to be in my presence.
I’m NOT sorry for honoring my desire to say NO THANK YOU.
I’m NOT sorry for RESPECTING myself enough to let disrespectful people go.
I’m NOT sorry for remembering and reclaiming the RIGHT TO MYSELF.
I’M NOT SORRY.
Unapologetic - Where good girls go to die