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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 31, 2022
- 2 min
How to spot a predator
Every time I hear of a good hearted individual who has been exploited, taken advantage of, and preyed upon, I feel a burning and...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 20, 2021
- 2 min
It's Time We Take Responsibility
When a woman shows up with a black eye, do you look for a reason to excuse his violence? When a woman is embarrassed about the verbal...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 17, 2021
- 2 min
You Can't Will It To Be True
“He finally got his big wake up call.” “He has to learn his lesson now.” “There is no way he will drink again after this.” “He won’t hurt...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 12, 2021
- 2 min
We Fight For Every Woman
My abuser could smell a powerful woman from a mile away. He knew my exposure to her intense, free spirited independence might make me...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 9, 2020
- 1 min
Our "Politeness" is Killing Us
As women, we have been deeply conditioned to be polite at all costs. A man compliments you? Smile and say “thank you”. A man offers help?...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 21, 2020
- 1 min
SUFFERING does not equal LOVE.
“Everyone else is a fucking POSER. I care about you for REAL.” “I won’t be like everyone else who has abandoned you.” We have often...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 18, 2020
- 2 min
Warrior Up Goddess
“I’m an empath so I’ve just resigned myself to the fact I attract narcissists.” I saw this comment on social media the other day and it...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 16, 2020
- 2 min
Privacy is a DANGEROUS priority
A few years ago, I was shocked to find out a friend of mine had been murdered. Stabbed to death by her boyfriend and left in her bed....
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 14, 2020
- 1 min
The making of an Unapologetic Woman
How I, Jillian Aurora - an average woman - became a Goddess. I walked through the fires and the darkness. I braved lonely, confusing...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 6, 2020
- 2 min
The Cost of Personal Freedom
It’s been two years. Two years since I blew up my life and burned all the bridges. I live my life on my own terms. I don’t settle for...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 4, 2020
- 2 min
Are You Really "Over It"?
If I had a nickel for every time I heard a woman say she “just couldn’t do this anymore”, I’d be retired. I remember many moments like...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 18, 2020
- 2 min
Nobody Knew
In the past, I have been an excellent secret keeper. I could contain the worst news. I could carry the deepest pain. I could cover up the...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 14, 2020
- 2 min
The Hidden Facade
You don’t comment or like my posts, because it’s too painful. You read and soak up every word of validation, but you’re stuck in your...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 22, 2020
- 2 min
Healing Does Not Happen Through HATRED
I watch a LOT of women try to heal from a toxic relationship through hatred. They demonize their previous partners, calling them names,...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 19, 2020
- 2 min
You Cannot LOVE Yourself and BETRAY Yourself at the Same Time.
“But the majority of the time he’s good to me.” “It’s only a small portion of time that he yells and breaks things.” “He only calls me...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 23, 2020
- 2 min
Tolerating Abuse
It never ceases to amaze me the amount of pain and absolutely outrageous behaviors I watch women tolerate for YEARS. It’s an endurance...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 11, 2020
- 2 min
I’m NOT sorry for BREAKING your RULES.
“You’re so boring. Can’t you be more interesting?” “Stop acting like a slut.” “You never put out. How can you expect me to be loyal?” “If...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 5, 2020
- 2 min
Stop Justifying Your Own Mistreatment
"But he’s sick.” “He’s wounded.” “He’s struggling.” “He just isn’t capable.” Day in and day out, I watch women lower their standards. I...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 1, 2020
- 2 min
Go Where Your Strength is CELEBRATED
Shortly before I left my marriage, I was stopped in my tracks by the words “You’ve become a strong woman and I don’t think I like that.”...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jun 30, 2020
- 2 min
SECRECY Perpetuates ABUSE
"You destroyed my life when you got that restraining order.” “If you hadn’t told everyone about our private business, we’d still have a...
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