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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 31, 2022
- 2 min
How to spot a predator
Every time I hear of a good hearted individual who has been exploited, taken advantage of, and preyed upon, I feel a burning and...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jun 11, 2021
- 2 min
He Deserves More Than Your Pity
Pity Love… Some of you are out there thinking… “I can’t leave because he won’t know what to do without me” “I don’t know what he would do...
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Jillian Aurora
- Apr 25, 2021
- 2 min
You Have Earned Your Discernment
Your discernment is getting stronger. You are seeing the red flags. You are learning to trust yourself and that “gut feeling”. So, you...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 29, 2021
- 1 min
The Goddess Creed
I hereby commit to my inner Warrior Goddess. I commit to honor myself, knowing this honors everyone. I will practice loyalty to myself,...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 27, 2021
- 1 min
"I Don't Accept No For An Answer"
“I don’t accept no for an answer” I have heard this statement glorified throughout my life. Endless persistence and determination. It’s...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 26, 2021
- 2 min
Stop Shutting It Out
Over the course of recovering from my codependency, I thought I had really mastered the idea of letting go of all expectations. I could...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 20, 2021
- 2 min
It's Time We Take Responsibility
When a woman shows up with a black eye, do you look for a reason to excuse his violence? When a woman is embarrassed about the verbal...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 19, 2021
- 2 min
It Is True
It is true, I hope to make some big changes in this world. It is true, I hope to see more empowerment for those suppressed. It is true, I...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 17, 2021
- 2 min
You Can't Will It To Be True
“He finally got his big wake up call.” “He has to learn his lesson now.” “There is no way he will drink again after this.” “He won’t hurt...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 13, 2021
- 1 min
Toxic Positivity
We have learned to have an intolerance for unpleasant truth. In the era of “positive thinking”, we have conveniently learned to excuse...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 10, 2021
- 3 min
How It's Supposed To Be
Sometimes I forget the eccentric and complicated life I have chosen to walk and am reminded when pieces of my past show up. I have never...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 26, 2021
- 1 min
Let's Talk About Loyalty
We traditionally see loyalty as a good thing. It’s one of the most POWERFUL values of the “good girl” identity. “I am GOOD because I am...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 17, 2021
- 2 min
You Were Created for MORE
You were created for more than having a relationship. Yet, many of us women live as if it is our sole objective. Like we are incomplete...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 8, 2021
- 1 min
My Resentment Is One of My Most Profound Gifts
My resentment is one of my most profound gifts. Yep. I didn’t mistype that. My resentment shows me where I am compromising my standards...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 6, 2021
- 2 min
Your Relationships Do Not Determine Your Worth
“She’s been married three times.” “She could’ve tried more to save the marriage.” “She needs to learn how to choose better men.” “If she...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 5, 2021
- 2 min
Let's Talk About Manifestation
“If I just ‘manifest better’ my relationship will improve.” “People around me are abusive because they are a reflection of my inner...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 19, 2020
- 3 min
Violence is Not Unpredictable
We like to think red flags are mysterious. Hard to spot until it’s too late. Evasive. I disagree. I used to believe I “couldn’t know” if...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 16, 2020
- 2 min
PROMISES Are Not GUARANTEES
“He VOWED to be married FOREVER.” “He CAN’T just walk away. He PROMISED.” “He HAS to change because he PROMISED.” “He HAS to stop...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 14, 2020
- 2 min
Accountability is LOVE
If I say I’m committed to being honest and you catch me lying, DON’T be PATIENT with me. If I say I’m committed to being real and you...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 12, 2020
- 2 min
FORGIVENESS
“Be the bigger person. Forgive.” “Why should I be the one to forgive when I’m the victim?!” “Staying angry is like drinking poison and...
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