

Jillian Aurora
- Sep 11, 2021
- 3 min
If I Can Recover, You Can Too.
This last week, I passed my 10 year anniversary in the AlAnon program. This is a testament to the woman who walked through those doors....
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 10, 2021
- 1 min
Tears are Nothing to Apologize for
We have been taught emotion is something to be problem solved. Something to be gotten rid of. Something to “treat”. Something to keep...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 8, 2021
- 2 min
What Are Your Pity Parties Trying to Tell You?
I had a meltdown last night. I often don’t allow myself the permission to break down, because I tell myself I don’t have the right. I...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jun 4, 2021
- 2 min
The Art of Dehumanization
“Anyone who isn’t a Patriot is a Traitor.” “Anyone who supports Trump is a White Supremacist.” “I refuse to unify with THEM.” We are...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 20, 2021
- 2 min
It's Time We Take Responsibility
When a woman shows up with a black eye, do you look for a reason to excuse his violence? When a woman is embarrassed about the verbal...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 19, 2021
- 2 min
It Is True
It is true, I hope to make some big changes in this world. It is true, I hope to see more empowerment for those suppressed. It is true, I...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 17, 2021
- 2 min
You Can't Will It To Be True
“He finally got his big wake up call.” “He has to learn his lesson now.” “There is no way he will drink again after this.” “He won’t hurt...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 12, 2021
- 2 min
We Fight For Every Woman
My abuser could smell a powerful woman from a mile away. He knew my exposure to her intense, free spirited independence might make me...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 6, 2021
- 1 min
Seeking the Truth is a Lonely Journey
The harder you seek the truth, the more alone you will find your path. For the truths you find will be intolerable to many. It will burn...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 24, 2021
- 2 min
Set the Standard
I talk a lot about unapologetically identifying what you want and setting the standards required to be in your presence. And, I have...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 17, 2021
- 2 min
You Were Created for MORE
You were created for more than having a relationship. Yet, many of us women live as if it is our sole objective. Like we are incomplete...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 13, 2021
- 2 min
We All Struggle With Boundaries Sometimes
You might be surprised to hear I still struggle with setting boundaries. Sometimes, desperately so. Yes, the same Jillian Aurora who’s...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 30, 2020
- 2 min
You Are Not FRAGILE.
I refuse to treat you as fragile. I understand you have been through hell. I understand you have been cruelly kicked down and belittled....
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 23, 2020
- 3 min
Your Excuses are as Real as You Say They Are
I find it interesting, some people think I have the world and other people wonder how I could possibly be happy living so simply. Some...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 23, 2020
- 3 min
You get to set whatever the fuck BOUNDARIES you want.
“I don’t drink.” It amazes me the amount of discomfort these words cause. Most of the time, I simply forget drinking is a normal part of...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 14, 2020
- 1 min
The making of an Unapologetic Woman
How I, Jillian Aurora - an average woman - became a Goddess. I walked through the fires and the darkness. I braved lonely, confusing...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 11, 2020
- 2 min
It is a PRIVILEGE to experience pain
Living loyal to yourself and your calling does not mean living pain and sorrow free. It does not mean being exempt from negative...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 6, 2020
- 2 min
The Cost of Personal Freedom
It’s been two years. Two years since I blew up my life and burned all the bridges. I live my life on my own terms. I don’t settle for...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 19, 2020
- 2 min
But... MONEY
“You’ll never travel without me.” “You’ll never be able to get nice things without me.” “You like this home? You’ll never live in a place...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 16, 2020
- 1 min
Freedom
What’s your freedom going to cost you? It may cost you your fancy house. It may cost you your elaborate vacations. It may cost you your...
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