
Jillian Aurora
- Apr 28, 2021
- 2 min
The Illusion of Easy Exits
“There’s always a time to easily exit a relationship. It’s during those bad times that define a true power couple.” I read this comment a...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 6, 2021
- 1 min
Seeking the Truth is a Lonely Journey
The harder you seek the truth, the more alone you will find your path. For the truths you find will be intolerable to many. It will burn...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 17, 2021
- 2 min
You Were Created for MORE
You were created for more than having a relationship. Yet, many of us women live as if it is our sole objective. Like we are incomplete...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 15, 2021
- 1 min
Settling is Always Based in Fear
“You can’t always get what you want.” “You have to be realistic.” “You just have to take what you can get.” “Better to play it safe.”...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 13, 2021
- 2 min
We All Struggle With Boundaries Sometimes
You might be surprised to hear I still struggle with setting boundaries. Sometimes, desperately so. Yes, the same Jillian Aurora who’s...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 12, 2021
- 2 min
Relationships Require Settling?
My whole life, I have heard people say “relationships require compromise”, “every relationship requires a degree of settling”, and “you...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 6, 2021
- 2 min
Your Relationships Do Not Determine Your Worth
“She’s been married three times.” “She could’ve tried more to save the marriage.” “She needs to learn how to choose better men.” “If she...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 5, 2021
- 2 min
Let's Talk About Manifestation
“If I just ‘manifest better’ my relationship will improve.” “People around me are abusive because they are a reflection of my inner...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 23, 2020
- 3 min
Your Excuses are as Real as You Say They Are
I find it interesting, some people think I have the world and other people wonder how I could possibly be happy living so simply. Some...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 9, 2020
- 1 min
Our "Politeness" is Killing Us
As women, we have been deeply conditioned to be polite at all costs. A man compliments you? Smile and say “thank you”. A man offers help?...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 7, 2020
- 3 min
Know the Red Flag Predictions
Many years of my life, I thought domestic violence was black and white. It was easy to spot. I knew I’d never be a victim, because I...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 5, 2020
- 1 min
Saying YES Will Always Have a Cost
Saying YES to courage and freedom will require you to say NO to a thousand safe and cautious opportunities. Saying YES to relationships...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 4, 2020
- 1 min
What if you aren't broken?
“Get in shape to raise your self worth!” “Have this plastic surgery to finally love your body!” “Don’t you want to give yourself the gift...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 27, 2020
- 1 min
EMBRACE your RESENTMENT
“How do I stop feeling mad at my partner for lying to me?” “How do I stop feeling resentful when my partner chooses a substance over me?”...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 25, 2020
- 2 min
But What If They Think I'm Difficult?
I’m a SNOB. And I’m ok with that. Back in the day, I avoided the perception of being a snob. High maintenance. Picky. Difficult....
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 23, 2020
- 3 min
You get to set whatever the fuck BOUNDARIES you want.
“I don’t drink.” It amazes me the amount of discomfort these words cause. Most of the time, I simply forget drinking is a normal part of...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 21, 2020
- 1 min
SUFFERING does not equal LOVE.
“Everyone else is a fucking POSER. I care about you for REAL.” “I won’t be like everyone else who has abandoned you.” We have often...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 16, 2020
- 2 min
Privacy is a DANGEROUS priority
A few years ago, I was shocked to find out a friend of mine had been murdered. Stabbed to death by her boyfriend and left in her bed....
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 14, 2020
- 1 min
The making of an Unapologetic Woman
How I, Jillian Aurora - an average woman - became a Goddess. I walked through the fires and the darkness. I braved lonely, confusing...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 9, 2020
- 2 min
Reclaim Your Authority
“My husband won’t let me wear that.” “My partner won’t let me cut my hair.” “My spouse won’t let me compete in a fitness competition.”...
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