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Jillian Aurora
- Apr 23, 2021
- 2 min
WHAT IF?
It is such a scary thing to burn away EVERYTHING that does not match your 100% FUCK YES’s. Taking that jump and burning down: The...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 17, 2021
- 2 min
You Can't Will It To Be True
“He finally got his big wake up call.” “He has to learn his lesson now.” “There is no way he will drink again after this.” “He won’t hurt...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 10, 2021
- 3 min
How It's Supposed To Be
Sometimes I forget the eccentric and complicated life I have chosen to walk and am reminded when pieces of my past show up. I have never...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 8, 2021
- 1 min
I Am My Own
March 1st, my name legally changed, for the fourth and final time. It changes to something with meaning. It is something I hand picked,...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 19, 2021
- 2 min
Boundaries
Often when people start to wake up to the idea of boundary setting, it is overwhelming. What boundaries do I set? Am I really allowed to...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 16, 2020
- 2 min
PROMISES Are Not GUARANTEES
“He VOWED to be married FOREVER.” “He CAN’T just walk away. He PROMISED.” “He HAS to change because he PROMISED.” “He HAS to stop...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 5, 2020
- 1 min
Saying YES Will Always Have a Cost
Saying YES to courage and freedom will require you to say NO to a thousand safe and cautious opportunities. Saying YES to relationships...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 2, 2020
- 2 min
One YES will require 1000 NO's.
You know that thing you really really want? That thing your heart LONGS for? Maybe it’s a relationship defined by mutuality, respect,...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 13, 2020
- 2 min
You can't do it ALL. Make your choice.
I used to have the biggest problem letting go of ANYTHING. Relationships Jobs Things Opportunities Commitments Businesses Projects I was...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 14, 2020
- 2 min
The Hidden Facade
You don’t comment or like my posts, because it’s too painful. You read and soak up every word of validation, but you’re stuck in your...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 1, 2020
- 2 min
I birth endings.
Over the last year, I have had the clarity my life’s calling is helping people through the WINTER seasons of life. I help people birth...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 29, 2020
- 4 min
Necessary Endings Require Courage
My job is walking women through their winter seasons of life. It’s holding their hands through the grief of letting go and gut wrenching...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 22, 2020
- 2 min
Healing Does Not Happen Through HATRED
I watch a LOT of women try to heal from a toxic relationship through hatred. They demonize their previous partners, calling them names,...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 20, 2020
- 2 min
YOU'RE NOT FAILING
“I can’t believe I’m so broken I’m reaching out to you.” This was a message I received this morning and it broke my heart. It made me sad...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 26, 2020
- 2 min
Love takes COURAGE.
"But I really love him and I know he loves me.” This is the response I hear, over and over, when women voice concerns and frustrations...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 25, 2020
- 2 min
Celebrate the ENDINGS
We often perceive hope as one of the greatest things. And, it IS amazing. I have very profound hopes and dreams. I have often been...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 24, 2020
- 2 min
There are NO guarantees
After attending AlAnon (a recovery group for friends and family members struggling with addiction/alcoholism) for a year, I thought I...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 23, 2020
- 2 min
Tolerating Abuse
It never ceases to amaze me the amount of pain and absolutely outrageous behaviors I watch women tolerate for YEARS. It’s an endurance...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jun 25, 2020
- 2 min
Grieving the LIVING
“He was such a jerk! Just leave him in dust and don’t look back!” “Have you seen what he did to you? WHY do you keep going back?” “You...
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Jillian Aurora
- Jun 21, 2020
- 3 min
The APPROPRIATE Response to Abuse
"Your silence is deafening.” “Why aren’t you speaking?” “You need to listen.” “No, you need to speak up.” “You’re speaking? You have...
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