Updated: Dec 21, 2021
You want to break the pattern of toxic relationships? You’re going to have to break your pattern of self-betrayal.
No, it’s not about fixing “your picker”. It’s much harder than that.
It’s about showing up, every day, in every relationship, with the willingness to choose honoring yourself NO MATTER WHAT YOU MIGHT LOSE.
It’s not about picking the “right” person. It’s about being entirely UNAVAILABLE to give up your entitlement to yourself. Your time. Your energy. Your attention. Your body. Your resources.