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Jillian Aurora
- Jul 6, 2021
- 2 min
We All Need a Little Grace in Order to Grow
It’s become really “cool” and acceptable to self-righteously condemn those that don’t agree with us. It’s never been easier to justify....
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Jillian Aurora
- Apr 26, 2021
- 1 min
Let's Talk About Trust
“I don’t know how to learn to trust again.” I hear this OVER and OVER. Then I hear some version of desperately trying to figure out how...
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Jillian Aurora
- Apr 23, 2021
- 2 min
WHAT IF?
It is such a scary thing to burn away EVERYTHING that does not match your 100% FUCK YES’s. Taking that jump and burning down: The...
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Jillian Aurora
- Mar 17, 2021
- 2 min
You Can't Will It To Be True
“He finally got his big wake up call.” “He has to learn his lesson now.” “There is no way he will drink again after this.” “He won’t hurt...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 24, 2021
- 2 min
Set the Standard
I talk a lot about unapologetically identifying what you want and setting the standards required to be in your presence. And, I have...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 16, 2020
- 2 min
PROMISES Are Not GUARANTEES
“He VOWED to be married FOREVER.” “He CAN’T just walk away. He PROMISED.” “He HAS to change because he PROMISED.” “He HAS to stop...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 14, 2020
- 2 min
Accountability is LOVE
If I say I’m committed to being honest and you catch me lying, DON’T be PATIENT with me. If I say I’m committed to being real and you...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 7, 2020
- 3 min
Know the Red Flag Predictions
Many years of my life, I thought domestic violence was black and white. It was easy to spot. I knew I’d never be a victim, because I...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 5, 2020
- 1 min
Saying YES Will Always Have a Cost
Saying YES to courage and freedom will require you to say NO to a thousand safe and cautious opportunities. Saying YES to relationships...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 2, 2020
- 2 min
One YES will require 1000 NO's.
You know that thing you really really want? That thing your heart LONGS for? Maybe it’s a relationship defined by mutuality, respect,...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 25, 2020
- 2 min
But What If They Think I'm Difficult?
I’m a SNOB. And I’m ok with that. Back in the day, I avoided the perception of being a snob. High maintenance. Picky. Difficult....
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 5, 2020
- 2 min
Celebrate Those Who Are REPULSED By You
The other day, I informed someone my home was an alcohol free space and that he was not welcome to bring his beer inside. For a moment,...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 4, 2020
- 2 min
Are You Really "Over It"?
If I had a nickel for every time I heard a woman say she “just couldn’t do this anymore”, I’d be retired. I remember many moments like...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 2, 2020
- 3 min
Love Letter to Yourself
You, Love, deserve the world and more. Every desire. Every heart melting experience. Every passion that lights your soul on fire. Every...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 30, 2020
- 2 min
I'm Not "LUCKY"
As I sat next to my Love as he woke up from surgery, I was struck by all the feels. The hospital was a place I was not a stranger to. I...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 21, 2020
- 1 min
Those Who LOVE You Will CELEBRATE Your BOUNDARIES
You will be called harsh. You will be called unrealistic. You will be called inconsiderate. You will be called selfish. You will be...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 20, 2020
- 2 min
YOU'RE NOT FAILING
“I can’t believe I’m so broken I’m reaching out to you.” This was a message I received this morning and it broke my heart. It made me sad...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 19, 2020
- 2 min
You Cannot LOVE Yourself and BETRAY Yourself at the Same Time.
“But the majority of the time he’s good to me.” “It’s only a small portion of time that he yells and breaks things.” “He only calls me...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 15, 2020
- 1 min
PAY ATTENTION
Pay attention when people are offended by your NO. Pay attention when they repeatedly ask, hoping to wear you down and get their way. Pay...
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Jillian Aurora
- Aug 30, 2020
- 2 min
You Will Always Get What You're Willing to Settle For
"You act like doing laundry is a full time job.” “What’s the big deal? It’s just a few dishes.” “Oh wowwww. We should stop and bow at...
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