Updated: Dec 21, 2021
You tell yourself you’re committed to staying.
You tell yourself he’s changing, it’s just slow.
You tell yourself he really loves you, he’s just damaged.
You tell yourself he really doesn’t mean the things he says.
You tell yourself you must be loyal.
You tell yourself it’s not that bad.
And, you’re totally allowed to make the decision to tolerate ANYTHING you want.
👉There is ALWAYS a cost.
Is it worth it?
Is it worth it if you live your life in chaos forever?
Is it worth it if you never get to experience healthy love?
Is it worth it if you never feel safe to fully express yourself?
Is it worth it if you never have a partner who manages their own emotions?
Is it worth it if you never have a partner who is truly reliable?
Is it worth it if you never experience sexual fulfillment?
Is it worth it if you never know a relationship where you don’t beg for love?
Is it worth it if you never experience more than “just ok”?
If you find yourself WAITING for someone else to give you what you know you deserve, you are living your life at the mercy of someone else.
If nothing ever changes, is it worth it?
How long are you willing to wait?
👉You have the steering wheel, Goddess. You can choose ANYTHING you want in this life.👑
Whenever you say “yes” to one thing, you are saying “no” to something else. Don’t let that something else be you.👈
Are you happy with what you have chosen?
Is it worth the cost?