Updated: Dec 21, 2021
Some people will spend a thousand dollars to spend a few hours with me, others wouldn’t choose to hang out with me for free. I used to accept whoever ended up in my space, constantly trying to impress and please. I hoped for everyone’s respect and approval and worked to earn it. Today, I recognize I have choice. Today I choose to surround myself with people who adore me and treat me as an equal. They value what I have to say. They openly receive my love. They recognize my strength and don’t tip-toe around me. I do NOT have available space for others who attack me or my work, attempt to create a sense of self-doubt, illicit defensiveness, or communicate with condemnation or dismissiveness. I am not available for this type of energy in ANY type of relationships. Not in romance. Not in family. Not in work. Not in friendship. When I honor myself by protecting my sacred space in this way, I create an effortless atmosphere for creativity and impact. Because I don’t spend a lot of energy fighting, convincing, explaining, earning, and struggling, I have loads more energy to invest in passionately creating and living in my purpose.