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Jillian Aurora
- Apr 28, 2021
- 2 min
The Illusion of Easy Exits
“There’s always a time to easily exit a relationship. It’s during those bad times that define a true power couple.” I read this comment a...
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Jillian Aurora
- Apr 25, 2021
- 2 min
You Have Earned Your Discernment
Your discernment is getting stronger. You are seeing the red flags. You are learning to trust yourself and that “gut feeling”. So, you...
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Jillian Aurora
- Feb 8, 2021
- 1 min
My Resentment Is One of My Most Profound Gifts
My resentment is one of my most profound gifts. Yep. I didn’t mistype that. My resentment shows me where I am compromising my standards...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 23, 2020
- 3 min
Your Excuses are as Real as You Say They Are
I find it interesting, some people think I have the world and other people wonder how I could possibly be happy living so simply. Some...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 19, 2020
- 3 min
Violence is Not Unpredictable
We like to think red flags are mysterious. Hard to spot until it’s too late. Evasive. I disagree. I used to believe I “couldn’t know” if...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 9, 2020
- 1 min
Our "Politeness" is Killing Us
As women, we have been deeply conditioned to be polite at all costs. A man compliments you? Smile and say “thank you”. A man offers help?...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 5, 2020
- 1 min
Saying YES Will Always Have a Cost
Saying YES to courage and freedom will require you to say NO to a thousand safe and cautious opportunities. Saying YES to relationships...
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Jillian Aurora
- Dec 4, 2020
- 1 min
What if you aren't broken?
“Get in shape to raise your self worth!” “Have this plastic surgery to finally love your body!” “Don’t you want to give yourself the gift...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 27, 2020
- 1 min
EMBRACE your RESENTMENT
“How do I stop feeling mad at my partner for lying to me?” “How do I stop feeling resentful when my partner chooses a substance over me?”...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 21, 2020
- 1 min
SUFFERING does not equal LOVE.
“Everyone else is a fucking POSER. I care about you for REAL.” “I won’t be like everyone else who has abandoned you.” We have often...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 13, 2020
- 2 min
You can't do it ALL. Make your choice.
I used to have the biggest problem letting go of ANYTHING. Relationships Jobs Things Opportunities Commitments Businesses Projects I was...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 9, 2020
- 2 min
Reclaim Your Authority
“My husband won’t let me wear that.” “My partner won’t let me cut my hair.” “My spouse won’t let me compete in a fitness competition.”...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 4, 2020
- 2 min
Are You Really "Over It"?
If I had a nickel for every time I heard a woman say she “just couldn’t do this anymore”, I’d be retired. I remember many moments like...
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Jillian Aurora
- Nov 3, 2020
- 2 min
What If It's My Fault?
“But what about my part?” “It takes two to create a bad marriage.” “I haven’t always been the perfect partner.” I hear these words often,...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 22, 2020
- 1 min
You Aren't a Slot Machine
“I feel guilty I don’t love him back.” “He’s been so nice to me.” “He’s been such a gentleman.” “He’s bought me lots of nice things.”...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 18, 2020
- 2 min
Nobody Knew
In the past, I have been an excellent secret keeper. I could contain the worst news. I could carry the deepest pain. I could cover up the...
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Jillian Aurora
- Oct 14, 2020
- 2 min
The Hidden Facade
You don’t comment or like my posts, because it’s too painful. You read and soak up every word of validation, but you’re stuck in your...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 20, 2020
- 2 min
YOU'RE NOT FAILING
“I can’t believe I’m so broken I’m reaching out to you.” This was a message I received this morning and it broke my heart. It made me sad...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 19, 2020
- 2 min
You Cannot LOVE Yourself and BETRAY Yourself at the Same Time.
“But the majority of the time he’s good to me.” “It’s only a small portion of time that he yells and breaks things.” “He only calls me...
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Jillian Aurora
- Sep 18, 2020
- 2 min
Honor Your Sovereignty
I witness a lot of women waiting for permission to take action. Educational decisions. Career decisions. Business decisions. Reproductive...
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